How To Make Someone Have A Mash On You? 3 Failed Strategies
Post on 04,October 2020   5:51 PM
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Do you dream of winning the attention of a dear person and arousing their interest or making them have a mash on you, but all attempts end in failure? One gets the feeling that it is a one-way street. You spend a lot of energy, turn on imagination to the fullest, advertise yourself, but the effect is zero: either the person does not notice anything or successfully pretends. What to do next? Can you make a person pine over you if they do not show any desire for getting closer? To begin with, we suggest exploring the classic mistakes of people on the sweety date dating site and in real life.

Mistake 1: Active self-promotion and showing off

As they say, “If you don't toot your own horn, nobody else will.” Even though it is a crucial point in seduction, you should skillfully demonstrate your strengths and stand out from the rest to draw their attention. On the other hand, you shouldn’t overdo it with self-advertising. When you show off, telling that you are awesome and gorgeous, you reduce your chances of success. Why did you decide that a stranger may care about your personality? The obsessive advertisement that no one asked for is annoying since nobody likes narcissistic personalities.

Mistake 2: Servile behavior

Sometimes people who have a mash on someone try to assert themselves, adjusting themselves to the object of sympathy in everything. They copy their habits and behavior, agree with alien values and lifestyle, make all kinds of concessions and compromises. "As you wish, dear." “I need nothing but you!” They think a

person will like it if they agree on everything and put on someone else’s image. However, it doesn’t work this way: a person who disappears into a partner loses their individuality, they become the shadow of the previous person, and nobody respects them. Such people are extremely boring (they don’t express their thoughts, views, and decisions), and in the long run, they become a burden because they begin to depend on their partner in everything.

Mistake 3: The role of a caring parent

Another myth from popular culture sounds like, “To please another person, you need to actively take care of them and pamper." That is why we give expensive gifts, arrange romantic dinners, solve other people's problems, knit scarves for the object of passion, rush with lemons through the whole city when they are sick. It sounds beautiful, but if a person is indifferent to you, excessive attention will irritate them and even may cause aggression. “What are they trying to get from me, why are they trying so hard? I didn’t ask them!” A trivial manipulation hides behind a beautiful courtship, “I have invested so much in you, you are obliged to pay me back.” They feel this. Therefore, they repel the offerings.

So How to Make Someone Have a Mash on You?

Unfortunately for you, there is no silver bullet. Sympathy either happens or not, little depends on you. You can praise yourself in every way. You can put pressure, beg, force, give in, or attack a person with attention and money. All this will only scare them away from you, but it will not force them to change their feelings. Do not become a hysterical child who is ready to make any tweaks for the sake of their toys. Respect the choice of another person, their feelings, and decisions because true love suggests this. Keep this in mind when trying to make someone go a bundle on you. You should neither chase them nor whine nor look at them as a pet.

The best tactic in the case of total ignorance is to get out of the way and recognize the right of another person not to feel anything for you. Yes, it is insulting, painful, unfair, and hurts the ego. However, you can try to find another way to meet your needs. People love self-sufficient ones, so leave the role of the victim and accept the denial with dignity, concentrate on other tasks - your favorite job, hobbies, friends, leveling up. You have a lot of affairs and interests. You are valuable. It’s not your trouble that the other did not notice this.

How else can you make a person think about you?

Speak less about yourself and listen more. Take a closer look at the things that the object of your love is focused on. What are they fond of? What are they missing? Perhaps you can make up for their unmet need. Show that you have what they need. But do not give out "candy" on demand. Leave a small deficit. Give bonuses step by step and without manipulations in the style of "give me something in return." Be a conscious and mature adult. The world is not limited to one person.

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